*slides up to you* *winks at you* *gets nervous* *stutters* hhEy baby *starts sweating* uhhmm if I could rearrange the alphabet…*wipes away sweat* I’d….I’D PUT U AND ME TOGETHER…. sHiT me isn’t even a letter.. *backs away trying to run away* *trips and falls*
I’m sick of people thinking they know everything that is going on in a relationship. Cheating is the worst thing you can do to your partner, your relationship, and you’re own self-esteem and self-respect. I understand it is never the right option and I don’t believe anyone has the right to do so. What I do know is that when you point the finger at a building and say it’s ugly, say it doesn’t fit in, before you have been inside and been shown all the true emotions and lack of emotions provided by itself or any person filling it; you are judging critically, you aren’t giving it a chance. This comes in to play for every single person who thinks a couple is so cute together, or a couple isn’t right for each other; you are judging, you know next to nothing.
Cheating isn’t for the reason of not loving your partner or because you don’t want to cause the pain of breaking up with them. Think about how lonely that person may feel when they aren’t shown love by the only person they ever wanted love from, aren’t provided effort by the number 1 person in their life. Cheating may be because they are utterly confused by these emotions and all they want is the slightest bit of happiness.
Being under the influence or not, when you have lost all happiness in your life, what would ever make you think your actions through enough to decide against someone else who is willing to share their happiness with you? Someone who finds you attractive enough to want, want for themselves, want when not even the person’s partner wants them in their life more than another distant friend?
If you have lost yourself and your leadership qualities, and you do not have the effort to ever think properly about a decision. Your friends and every person in your life drifts away from you, resulting in drifting further away from yourself.
Every person makes mistakes, but they need someone there to pick them up and provide enough effort for them to feel stable. To think, hey this person and I have bonded so much that I have reasoning to be here, that I know life does have it’s worth.
Cheating may occur as a result of any lack in a relationship, not just a lack of love for one another. Making someone feel more guilty for their actions is never going to help. Excuses will never be made for any mortal sin, but being repentant and shown forgiveness will always make someone feel worthy.